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Long-Term Care Insurance, Reverse Mortgages & More
Most families pay for at least the first stretch of care themselves. These are the tools that can make savings last longer, along with honest warnings about the ones that are often oversold.
Rules and phone numbers differ by state.Open your state's guide for the local version.
Savings, insurance and home equity: the 2026 numbers
Long-term care insurance benefit triggers
Most policies pay when the policyholder needs help with 2 or more of 6 activities of daily living (bathing, continence, dressing, eating, toileting, transferring), expected to last at least 90 days, or has a cognitive impairment such as Alzheimer's disease or other dementia. The insurer usually sends a nurse or social worker to assess.
Long-term care insurance elimination (waiting) period
The time that must pass after the benefit trigger is met before the policy starts paying. It works like a deductible measured in days; the family pays care costs during it. File the claim right away so the clock starts.
Typically 30, 60 or 90 days (policies offer 20 to 100)
How to file a long-term care insurance claim
Call the insurer as soon as care is needed and ask for claim forms. The insurer arranges an assessment by a nurse or social worker to confirm the benefit trigger. Once approved, the insurer's care manager develops a plan of care listing covered benefits, and the elimination period must be met before payments begin. If the insurer delays or denies unfairly, contact the state insurance department.
Before getting a HECM, the borrower must meet with a HUD-approved HECM counselor about eligibility, costs and alternatives. The loan comes due when the last borrower dies, sells or permanently moves out, including a permanent move to assisted living or a nursing home. Borrowers must keep paying property taxes and homeowner's insurance.
The most home value FHA will count for a Home Equity Conversion Mortgage, for FHA case numbers assigned on or after January 1, 2026. Borrowers must be 62 or older and live in the home as their principal residence.
The state insurance regulators' guide to how long-term care insurance works: benefit triggers, elimination periods, inflation protection and Partnership policies that protect assets if Medicaid is needed later.
When to use it: When you find a parent's long-term care policy and need to understand what it pays, or are shopping for coverage.
Explains how a long-term care insurance claim works: the benefit trigger (help with 2 of 6 daily activities or cognitive impairment), the insurer's assessment, the plan of care, and the elimination period before payments start.
When to use it: As soon as a parent with a long-term care policy starts needing help, so the claim and waiting period start right away.
Every HECM reverse mortgage borrower must first meet with a HUD-approved counselor about costs, eligibility and alternatives. Use HUD's counselor locator or call HUD's counseling line.
When to use it: Before any reverse mortgage application, especially if a parent may move to assisted living soon.
A reverse mortgage comes due when the last borrower permanently moves out, including to assisted living or a nursing home, so it rarely works to pay for a move out of the home.
Plain-language federal guide to reverse mortgages, including what happens if the borrower moves to a nursing home or assisted living, protections for a non-borrowing spouse, and how to avoid losing the home.
When to use it: When a reverse mortgage is suggested as a way to pay for care.
The loan may have to be repaid early if taxes, homeowner's insurance or repairs are not kept up.
Explains accelerated death benefits, life settlements (selling a policy for cash, generally age 70 and up), viatical settlements for the terminally ill, and combination life and long-term care policies.
When to use it: When a parent owns a life insurance policy and the family is considering using it to pay for care.
Life settlement proceeds may be taxed, leave little or nothing for heirs, and can count against Medicaid eligibility; get independent advice from an elder law attorney or tax professional and compare offers first.
Government explainer on using a reverse mortgage to pay for care at home: age 62 and up, required counseling, lump sum, monthly or line-of-credit payouts, and the costs as the loan balance grows.
When to use it: When a parent plans to stay at home and has substantial home equity.
The loan balance grows over time and equity shrinks, and the loan must be repaid when the borrower permanently moves out.
Long-term care insurance for federal employees, retirees, military members and their families. New applications are suspended for 24 months starting December 19, 2024; people already enrolled keep their coverage but cannot increase it.
When to use it: When a parent is a federal or military retiree who already has an FLTCIP policy and needs to file a claim.
No new enrollments are accepted during the suspension, which OPM may extend.